So many of our relationships are built on living in the hope that the other person will fill our emotional needs.  It is too easy to fall into the trap of unconsciously using that other person as our personal emotional drug.

Those are heavy words if you haven’t looked at the Divine Vibration lessons yet, but think about it for a moment. 

What do you do when they don’t live up to your expectations?  Do you get angry or frustrated? 

What do you do when those fabulously delicious juices of ‘falling in love’ dissipate and you’re left with the day to day routine of life?  Do you eventually look for someone else with whom you can flirt or ‘fall in love’... or even experience ‘a short story’ as the Italians like to say?

What do you do with colleagues at work who try to power play you?  Do you attempt to beat them at their own game, thereby participating in and feeding their power games?

In all of these cases, and the bazillion other experiences that are anything less than free flowing Divine Love, you are looking outside yourself for your inner fulfillment and/or a validation of who you are.  What a wasted effort when you already have access to an infinite fountain of Divine Love just by allowing it to flow from the center to circumference of your Being.

Whether it’s a relationship with children, lover, spouse, parent, friend, colleague at work or the green grocer around the corner, when we release those relationships to the vibration of the Divine Light - which is Divine Love in a more Omnipotent, Infinite, Omniscient and unconditional form than we can ever fully comprehend while in the human body - it always evolves for everyone’s highest good.

So, how do you release relationships to the vibration of Divine Light? 

Start with the technique you’ll find in the Basic Activation of the Divine Light Vibration in this section of the website.  Once you’ve done the basic activation and you feel you are in touch with a calm space in the center of your Being (do the best you can - this ability to find that calm center will develop with practice), declare:  “The Divine in me releases    (name of the person)   to the Divine Light.  Only Light is here and only Light can come between us.  The Divine in   (name of the person)  releases me to the Light.  Only Light is here and only Light can come between us.” 

Then, fill your heart with Divine Light and send it straight from your heart to theirs.  Hold that until you sense it is free flowing from you to the other person.  Then, allow that Divine Light to flow back to you. 

Once you have felt you have done that, declare:  “Let... our two Divine Souls guide us for the right relationship, for both of our highest good.  Make clear our way before us so we may interact in confidence and in peace.”

Between each declaration, wait until you feel a sense of expansion which is a measure of how much you have allowed the vibration to be activated.  The deeper you are in your heart space, the more effective this will be.  If there are more people than just two involved in the relationship you want to release to the Divine Light, do that same activation for each individual person and then finish with the declaration:  “Let... all our Divine Souls guide us for the right relationship for all people involved.  Illumine us.  Make clear our way before us so we may interact in confidence and in peace.”

If you have a way of recording yourself, it is sometimes helpful to record this activation in your own voice and let it guide you through the process. 

This activation will work to the degree of your willingness to allow it and how deep your are in your heart space when you do it.  At the same time, you also need to give it time and space for evolution to occur. 

You cannot change others, you can only allow your Divine Self to emerge in It’s expression.  That being said, however, in this activation of the Divine Light Vibration, you are inserting a more refined vibration into the group dynamic.  The more you can ‘hold’ the Divine Light Vibration at more refined frequencies, the easier it is for the others to begin waking up.  As you have learned in the lessons on the vibration of Divine Light, which is Divine Love (or will learn if you haven’t already visited there), there is no separation and all vibrations are interacting with each other at all times. 

Should you sense that you can go deeper into the releasing of the relationship, you might want to consider also releasing the outdated belief system which you have in play in the dynamics of the relationship.  You’ll find that in the main menu of Activating the Alchemy, which is the section you are in right now.